mother wound

Every field that I make will be posted here. I make alternate versions, 3 different alternate versions now. I also work to ensure the energy is stronger. I wait until they are ready to be released. So please understand that this takes time. Generally, this takes at least three days. Sometimes more. I am not the type to release things until they are ready. I truly appreciate your understanding and support. 

This field is designed to heal this specific wound, the mother wound. If you would like more information on this wound there is a link from an article I quote to explain this issue. I will add this to the trauma playlist as well.  

Thank you for being here, and for existing in this world. You deserve so much love. You always have.   

"Mothers mold us — often physically in the womb (though there are many other types of mother-child relationships, including adoptive ones) and emotionally through their interactions with us.  The bond is so strong that British psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott believed that there’s no such thing as an infant, but only an infant and their mother. He believed that a child’s sense of self is built by the kind of a relationship that they have with their primary caregiver (usually mom).  So what happens if mom wasn’t there for you emotionally? According to some psychoanalysts, researchers, and other theorists, the so-called “mother wound” occurs." https://www.healthline.com/health/mot... 

A lot of times when we think someone has hurt us, its not what they did at all. If we were healed the tiny action, the insignificant comment, the words said out of jealousy, the outright rejection even, that lack of care, whatever it is, it only brings up old wounds. Sometimes these people appear for this reason. 

These situations happen to say, "hey you've got something going on here."  

Imagine salt on fully healed skin, no big reaction. But you put that same salt on a wound, and it stings.